Two Parter
PLOTMONKEYS THINK ALIKE (part one)
It’s interesting. I wrote this post all on my own, then I decided to peek at Leslie’s before inputting mine for Tuesday. What did I find? We’re on the same wavelength. How this can happen when we a) live miles and miles; states and states apart; b) we both had such busy weekends neither one of us spoke or emailed much at all; and c) neither one of us are mind readers? the answer is clear, of course. We’re close friends, (plotmonkeys, doesn’t that say it all?) and we’re mothers. Of girls. That says even more. Apparently we both are lamenting our daughter’s aging along with admiring how well they’ve matured. And how much more I am sure they have to go.
So without further ado, here is MY weekend with my daughter. And Les, I have no idea why they have to grow up so fast!
This weekend I took my oldest daughter with me to Bookseller’s Expo in Washington, D.C. For both of us it was an experience. She had the opportunity to see what I do when I go away for the weekend on business and I got the chance to see her interact with people I work with. Whenever anyone asked if she was having fun, I said the real test would be if she asked to go with me again next year.
We flew into Washington’s Reagan International Airport midday. The flight was uneventful (take that, Janelle who says I’m a hazard to fly with!
and I slept most of the short trip. We took a cab from the airport to the hotel and snapped photos along the way. As soon as we arrived at the room, my daughter flopped onto the first bed and claimed it as her own. She even helped me unpack. Then we were off to meet a friend of mine, young adult author Nikki Burnham for dinner. Jackie is a fan of Nikki’s and Nikki and I had laughed over the fact that my daughter would come to see that Nikki is really “just like her mom.” But we had a lot of fun over dinner and then went book shopping at Barnes and Noble before going back to the hotel and crashed.
The next morning, I did a traditional autograph signing at what BEA calls “the chutes”. I signed 140 books in under an hour and Jackie got a signed copy of Sarah Dessen’s Just Listen. Afterwards, we wandered around the convention center and picked up all sorts of fun stuff before going for a business lunch. I was so proud of the way she held up without once complaining. 
Finally, we had time alone. As I’d promised we went to see the Holocaust Museum.
Wow. Wow and double wow. It’s one thing to experience something that powerful alone, or to think you know the depth of human depravity and inhumanity, or that you learned all you could on the subject growing up. It’s quite another to visit with your daughter and see the experience through her eyes.
If nothing else, Remember the Children: Daniel’s Story brought home the events leading up to the holocaust and the camps through a child’s eyes. MY child. I’ve never been so moved or humbled. Later, we visited the Vietnam Memorial, the Korean Memorial and the Lincoln Memorial.
By the end of the day we’d had
enough memorials and we went for dinner with cousins, then shopping at Urban Outfitters and then had ice cream at Ben and Jerry’s. (See we TOLD you you’d hear about Ben and Jerry’s!).
The next morning, I had another book signing at the Harlequin Booth and my daughter handed out canvas Harlequin bags like a real trooper. She met the delightful Heather Graham who I adore and we picked up so many advanced reading copies of books, she nearly forgave me for forcing her to drag our luggage to the convention center (when I booked flights I forgot to include time to go back to the hotel and get our bags!) and the center was split level and not easy to get around especially with luggage!
Finally we headed out to the airport … we ate lunch at TGI Friday’s there and then settled in early at the gate where I played the end of Prison Break on my laptop and watched the second to last episode of 24 while she viewed standup comedy and read her book.
We arrived home happy to see her sister and dad and the dog and she quickly escaped to her room … and I have barely seen her since! I have to say that I will treasure the weekend we had together since teenagers value their private time. I’m lucky she wanted to come with me and I can’t wait until it’s her sister’s turn to do the same.
And the good news? BEA is in NY next year … and she asked if she could come again. I guess that means she enjoyed herself too.
PART TWO
ODE TO ALIAS – CARLY’S MUSINGS

I’m watching THE FINALE OF ALIAS. It’s been five years since it all began. Five years ago I was 35. Five years ago, my kids were 5 and 9. I don’t think Kelly Ripa had picked THE BACHELOR yet. Five years ago, I was awestruck by Sydney Bristow and the writing and plotting of JJ Abrams. I’ve yelled and screamed every season since. I’ve been frustrated and angry; happy and sad. Nothing has motivated my writing like watching Alias. So as I view THE END, I am going to post about my beloved characters … just because. Because I have this blog and I CAN.
Marshall – the boy’s become a man. He started out as a goof and now he’s a strong man. Standing up for his family and his country. I love him.
Carrie – she married Marshall the boy wonder and she understood him when nobody else did. Good for her!
Sloane – like Sydney and Jack, I never wanted to believe he was all bad. When he killed Nadia, that was the end for me. I hope he dies. He did. By Syd. Well done.
Weiss – I miss him, period. Nobody does one liners like Eric.
Sark – can take him or leave him, really. Man whore.
Will – as my friends know, I never really had any patience for Will. But as long as he stays in the Witness Protection Program, he’s good by me. Plus I saw him in person on Paradise Island (the Bahamas) – someone remind me to do a blog on my Ocean Club trip the weekend Jason Priestly got married! 
Francie – RIP – loved you in flashbacks tonight.
Danny – without you gone, there would be no Syd and Vaughn.
Anna Espinosa – a formidable opponent but no match for Syd.
Dixon – he lost his beloved wife, he has his kids. He’s Syd’s partner and he’s the best.
Lauren – DING DONG THE WITCH HAS BEEN DEAD SINCE SEASON WHENEVER. Who cares? She’s gone.
Rachel – I hated her when she came on the show. I resented her for trying to be Sydney. She’s come along. I kinda dig her now.
Tom – whatever. (sorry)
Peyton – bitch. And to think snakes did her in. LOL.
Rambaldi – a prophet or a madman? Will we ever know?
Jack – Spy Daddy. I love him. He was cold as ice and then he warmed up. Since Isabelle, he’s amazing. He raised Sydney didn’t he? He’s the loss that’s hardest to bear in the finale.
Irina – Spy Mommy. Electrifying. Any episode she’s on, she ups the ante, ups the electricity, every sentence and word she speaks, counts. I don’t know who’s side she’s on maybe only her own but a part of me wanted desperately to believe she loved Syd and Jack. But alas …
Vaughn – a man not afraid to stand with or behind a strong woman. To me, he is the epitome of the word HERO.
Isabelle – so glad your daddy lived to see you.
JJ Abrams – Genius. Still so many questions only a writer would ask, like: Did he plan Lauren? Or did he lose interest in the season Syd lost her memory?
Thank you to the Vartan Ho’s for making Alias a memorable experience:
Vartan Ho # 2379
Signing off …





Morning Carly! I too have watched Alias from the beginning. I LOVE LOVE LOVE the character of Sydney Bristow. I was so happy with the ending too. I cried like a baby when Jack got shot and Sydney was pleading with him to let her stay until help arrived. And then to hear them actually exchange “I love you”….I just sobbed like a baby.
I have NEVER liked Sloane and I NEVER believed he had ANY good in him. That man was just evil to the core and you could tell just by looking at him.
I must say, last season when Vaughn was “killed off” no one believed me when I told them he wasn’t. LOL!!! There was no way they could kill off such an important character. I mean, after all doesn’t Sydney deserve to be happy?!
Comment by Kelly — May 23, 2006 @ 8:56 am
I’m like you, Kelly. I always knew he was alive. Sydney mourned not having him around but she didn’t grieve. I could tell the difference.
Comment by Carly — May 23, 2006 @ 9:03 am
I’m going to so miss this show. Loved the BEA recap …
Comment by Jill — May 23, 2006 @ 10:37 am
Thanks for sharing the story of your trip. It sounds like you and your daughter had a wonderful time together!
Comment by Susan — May 23, 2006 @ 11:53 am
The trip that you and your daughter shared sounds great, and am glad that you both enjoyed it. Also that she wants to go again next year is a bonus.
Since I don’t watch much TV, I cannot give my thoughts on Alias……or any other show for that mater…..
Comment by Cryna — May 23, 2006 @ 11:58 am
:p I can’t believe my luck today. Went to Walmart out of town and found “Hot Item” already out!! Yay!!
Comment by Kelly — May 23, 2006 @ 4:35 pm
I can’t comment on “Alias”, but I can on the other….I, too, have been doing a lot of reflecting on my boys (6, 3 1/2 and 16 months). My oldest just had his sixth birthday and it is amazing how far we have come in those short years (he has autism). I want them all to grow up to be wonderful men, but at the same time, I don’t want them to grow up.
Anyway, it is not just with girls that we get wistful, boys, too!
Comment by katie — May 23, 2006 @ 6:00 pm
I can’t comment on “Alias”, but I can on the other….I, too, have been doing a lot of reflecting on my boys (6, 3 1/2 and 16 months). My oldest just had his sixth birthday and it is amazing how far we have come in those short years (he has autism). I want them all to grow up to be wonderful men, but at the same time, I don’t want them to.
Anyway, it is not just with girls that we get wistful, boys, too!
Comment by katie — May 23, 2006 @ 6:00 pm
I meant to say, I don’t want them to grow up (my brain is too tired today). I DO want them to be wonderful men, someday… (Yikes, otherwise, it sounds terrible!).
Comment by katie — May 23, 2006 @ 6:01 pm
I stopped watching Alias last year, but I did enjoy the Alias recap, Carly! It’s nice to know that the ending satisfied viewers.
Comment by Janelle Denison — May 23, 2006 @ 6:21 pm
I never got hooked on Alias, it may have been the time slot or conflicting programs. I think I may have seen 1 or 2 episodes early on. So many programs are having final programs & going off the air. I am going to miss West Wing & I’m not at all happy that Commander in Chief was taken off the air! (n) They never asked my opinion!
Carly your weekend with your daughter sounds like a great trip. I’m so glad you had that & she wants to go again.
Comment by Donna M — May 23, 2006 @ 8:39 pm
Carly, I have a strange question…I was just reading a review of “Hot Item’ on amazon.com and it says it was ‘penned by Lori”. Am I reading this wrong??? :o
Comment by katie — May 24, 2006 @ 12:53 am
I have to think the review was penned by Lori? I know darned well I wrote HOT ITEM, LOL!
I’ll check it out :d
Comment by Carly — May 24, 2006 @ 6:12 am
“I know darned well I wrote HOT ITEM, LOL!”
LOL Carly!
Like you, I’ve been an avid Alias fan from the beginning. And I’ve recommended the show to just about anyone willing to watch. So much so that by season 3, Alias was a MUST for my brother, my parents & my friends too. LOL. I agree with you about all the characters except I liked Rachel’s character from the beginning.
And you’re so right about Vaughn. He is such a great hero! I was devastated when he “died” but I just couldn’t accept his “death” so I was going with the idea that he was still alive, somewhere. Thank goodness he survived and lived to have his Happily Ever After with Syd!
Comment by Grace — May 24, 2006 @ 10:27 pm
I love your telling of your trip. I have a 14 yr. old daughter, also. We homeschool, so we are together all the time. But, we try to take a special shopping trip between Christmas and New Year’s every year just for us. We stay in a hotel, order room service, eat what we want, do what we want, do the whole “girly thing” facials, pedicures, manicures, etc. It’s our special time.
We live in MS, if a book expo or convention is ever held near enough for us to go to one Caitlin and I would certainly go. We are a reading family. What authors are your daughter reading?
My son is 21 and in the Army and I know how fast they grow up. I wish I had done something special with him.
Thank you so much
Comment by Pam G — May 26, 2006 @ 12:16 pm
My 14 year old reads everything from Gossip Girls, to Jodi Piccoult, to Night by Eli Weisel. Unlike her Mom who only reads romance. :d
Comment by Carly — May 28, 2006 @ 9:12 pm