How I Carve Out My Own Space

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This article was written years ago. I tweaked it a bit to make it more up to date … but in all honesty I just realized we had no Saturday blog posted, so here ya go, LOL!
HAPPY WEEKEND and HAPPY HARRY to all.
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I didn’t always want to be a writer. However, I always fantasized, creating stories in my head. Funny thing is, I thought everybody did! If I couldn’t sleep, I put myself into the jungle and set up an adventure, complete with sexy hero. His face changed as I grew up, but the one thing that stayed the same was the happily ever after. I believe I was destined to write romance. And now I get to roll out of bed, get the kids out to school and work at home. What’s better than that?

The long/short story… I’ve always been a reader and more so when my first daughter was born. I quickly realized I loved happy endings and discovered the romance section of the bookstore where I bought and read LaVyrle Spencer and Catherine Coulter’s entire backlist. At some point I discovered these authors started writing category romance and I began to devour Harlequin and Silhouette books, learning which series I liked best. And soon, the writing bug bit. I wrote for seven years and I had ten completed manuscripts before I sold BRAZEN. I suppose there’s a lesson in there and it involves patience and perseverence! A few months after selling my first book, I sold my second, a Zebra Bouquet called PERFECT PARTNERS, published under the name Karen Drogin (my real name). Two of my three Bouquets were written prior to selling and had been through the rejection process, however Bouquet was open to more emotional stories and they were very well received. After the demise of the Bouquet line, I streamlined into only writing as Carly Phillips and I’ve never looked back!

The inner sanctum… Where do I work? I have an office right off my bedroom. A separate room from my room, a separate room that isn’t on top of the kids, and yet right in the center of things so I’m always around when anyone needs me. So I can truly roll out of bed and work!

How do I get started? … With an idea. A bare basic idea, much to my critique partner’s chagrin. I don’t normally outline in detail, just a basic floorplan. Then I let my characters tell their story, which means I’m always writing and rewriting until I nail the beginning. As for plotting, sometimes I learn things as I go along, which necessitates going back and building in, which is OK. I’d much rather write spontaneously as long as it works within the context of the story! But at some point, I do outline so that I have an idea of where I’m going—if not how I get there. I don’t always use pictures of characters and sometimes I’ll find a great photo that gives me inspiration, for example I had George Clooney posted for a long time. Also, there are TV shows that provide me with inspiration—used to be Ally McBeal and Robert Downey Jr.’s chemistry and these days it’s Alias—Sydney Bristow and Vaughn. Whatever works is what I suggest!

Mechanics… I used to work in Word Perfect because it’s a holdover from my law school, pre-Microsoft days, now I work in Word on an Apple laptop. And I work in order, from the beginning to the end I hope, thanks to the Plotmonkeys, Janelle, Julie and Leslie. I revise as I go along, so by the time I hit “The End” all that’s left is a final read through. Janelle also reads as I go along, which acts as a second set of eyes. If I get stuck, I call for Janelle first and chocolate second, Brenda my editor third! I’m more a character driven than plot driven writer and I’m a stickler for sympathetic characters and usually create them through rich histories and backstory.

Schedules and Page Count… All writers deal with the dreaded “S” word. Schedule. How do you have a consistent schedule when you have kids? When life isn’t consistent? You don’t. At least I don’t! First, I have a mental way of handling things. 25 pages per week. For me, that’s 5 pages a day, five days a week. Or two pages one day and seven the next. I don’t much care how I tally the pages as long as those pages get written. And I admit, when the weekend rolls around, if I’m running short on page count, I’m working a lot harder to make those pages up. Not necessarily the most effective means, but it works well for me.

Keeping myself honest… How do I keep myself on track and honest? I use something developed by my critique partner called a GOAL SHEET. (okay if she didn’t develop the idea, she shared it with me. Same thing as far as I’m concerned!) In a binder, I print and put blank goal sheets, broken down by week. One page per week and divided by days. The top of each page/week has the page I’m supposed to be on when the week ends. It’s an effective means of keeping me on my toes and every day I jot down page count—what I wrote, or didn’t write, and why. I make myself accountable. Then there’s my critique partner who I can count on to crack the whip if I take too many days off!

Avoiding Loneliness… Writing’s a solitary profession. Friends, family and sunlight are the things that save a writers life! So if I don’t feel like writing, I don’t! Even when I have a deadline, if I need a break, I take it. I love shopping and I love spending time with my mom, and we do both together quite well! I have lunch with local friends, have long phone conversations with writing friends and effectively use the Internet to procrastinate. Writers organizations like Romance Writers of America are indispensable to a writer and I am a local member of New Jersey, New England and Hudson Valley Romance Writers.

But no matter what, I have to write, not because of deadlines only but because it calls to me.

8 Comments »

  1. I am such a loser- I got home from work at 3am and started reading HP. it is now 930 and I have been up reading for an hour and have to go to PT. Do you think I can read while they fix my back???

    I am soooo glad this mania is over with.:cocktail::cocktail:

    Comment by ev — July 21, 2007 @ 9:24 am

  2. Thanks Carly
    I think everything you just wrote is exactly what I needed to hear.
    I write because I love it, because there is a story inside me that needs to be told, I write for me, and then there are days when I just don’t feel like it, of course being an unpublished author, I don’t have a deadline…lol
    I think you are a talented author, and I’m always eager to read your next book, I think I may even search online for Perfect Partners…Thanks for the insight

    Comment by Tina Martinesi — July 21, 2007 @ 10:35 am

  3. We are calling you ou ou ou ou ou ou!

    With a love that’s true-ue ue ue.

    What was that old song from anyway?

    I :love2: that you need to write,

    cause we :love2: to read.

    Hug to all have a wonderful weekend

    I am gonna read “Stripped”

    Comment by jeannie — July 21, 2007 @ 12:24 pm

  4. Thanks Carly! The scheduling bit is hard for me at the moment since it’s summer vacation and my kids are home. I love their company but it definitely cuts in to my writing time. And I really like your idea of a goal sheet. While I don’t have any professional deadlines (yet -lol) I really want to finish the things I’m working on sooner than later because I have lots more ideas that need to get on the page!

    Quick question if you check back in - Do you ever write more than one story at a time or do you focus on only one manuscript from start to finish before starting another?

    Thanks again! I really appreciate these Saturday posts and am learning so much from you guys.

    Comment by Robin — July 21, 2007 @ 1:54 pm

  5. I’m here! Robin, I think if you look at your summer and ask yourself: do my kids nap (ages?) or if I take them swimming, can I get an hour to myself? Then you can TRY to schedule writing. This isn’t happening for me, so who am I to give advice, LOL which brings me to my next point - when I wrote this I was probably just published and much more disciplined on the goal sheets. BUT THEY WORK and I highly suggest it!

    I don’t write more than one but I know Julie is or was currently doing that, so maybe she can jump in. I’m not good at multitasking manuscripts/stories! Wish I was …

    Hope this helps.

    Comment by Carly — July 21, 2007 @ 1:58 pm

  6. Hey Carly~ Those napping days are long gone unfortunately - my boys are 9 and 14 - but like you suggested, I do try to squeeze in an hour here or there. And eventually that will add up, right? It just seems like without a pretty good chunk of time, I don’t get a lot written and then I have to remember where I left off, so sometimes I’d just rather wait.

    Thanks again for all your great suggestions and insight! You are always helpful!

    Comment by Robin — July 21, 2007 @ 3:01 pm

  7. Carly, your formula must be working well for you

    I’m a newbe, and I think I’ll have to give it a try.

    Great job at the RITA awards in Dallas

    Comment by Fiona — July 21, 2007 @ 7:14 pm

  8. Hi everyone. I’m a member of RWA Online (#136) and there are several authors on there that use WriteWay Pro. One cool thing about that program is, it tracks your word count for you. You can put in a projected word count goal, the date you’d like to reach it and it figures how many words per day you need and tracks how you’re doing. Right now I’m sucking at my projection, but at least I know how far in the freakin’ hole I am.

    Thanks for the advise, Carly!

    Julie - I want you to know I went to Barnes & Noble today - fought the Harry Potter people - just to get “Stripped.” I’m sure it will be worth it though!

    Comment by Jodie — July 21, 2007 @ 8:00 pm

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