What Carly had to say on Friday, June 26th, 2009
I woke up in a funky mood on Thursday and as you all know – as the world knows – yesterday was surreal. For many of us it was the day two childhood icons died. I need a pick me up. I think we all do. So here’s my solution. Post a comment here today for a chance to win a chance to win a $25 Sephora gift card. You can use it in stores or online!
Any of you as affected by yesterday as me?
Carly Phillips would like to take 100% credit for all her stories but the truth is, Carly’s strength is writing family, emotion, funky elderly people and animals. She couldn’t plot her way out of a paper bag, which is why she smartly found her plotmonkey pals early on in her writing career. Thanks to their support, Carly is now a NYT Bestselling author of 23 plus novels. Because writing doesn’t keep her busy enough, Carly is also a wife, a mother of one preteen and one teenage daughter, the primary care giver of her soft coated Wheaten terrier and an expert carpool mom.
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I think I am more affected by Farrah’s passing than Michael’s. I was never a big Michael fan,even though we are the same age. (I preferred Donny, and still do). Farrah on the other hand, especially in the last few years, lived her life with such dignity, knowing that the kind of cancer she had was not something that people want to talk about or even acknowledge.
i wish she and Ryan had had a chance to marry first.
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I think Michael’s death hit a lot harder because it was so unexpected. At least it did for me. With Farrah, it was sad, knowing she was sick, and that her and Ryan hoped to marry before she passed away. Michael’s death was a total shock. I was a huge fan of his Thriller days, when I was around 11, 12 yrs old. Just unreal to think he’s gone. What a sad week.
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Both deaths saddened me, too. Michael Jackson was such an American culture icon from the 80s, even my teenage kids who didn’t live through that area were affected when I told them.
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This has been a sad week, Farrah with her smile and the way she battled cancer with grace and dignity. She’ll be missed
And Michael, what an amazing singer and dancer. There aren’t many performers who have had a career like his.
Ed McMahon will be missed as well, I loved to hear him laugh with Johnny carson.
Di
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I hope everyone has a good and safe weekend. I’m off to get a crown on my tooth. So scared. . .
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It was a surreal day. I was really saddened to learn of Farrah’s passing because she was just such a wonderful spirit and you couldn’t have gotten through the past month without realizing that she was nearing the end of her struggle. With Michael,, it was a holy crap kind of thing because it came out of nowhere. No visible signs of a health problem – at least not that he let on. Just a shock. Two great talents gone. What a sad day.
Margay
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It was sad yesterday! I was shocked by all that happened.
I am doing better today because it is my 42nd birthday. My hubby is taking me to a restaurant called Chedders for dinner and my youngest daughter, who two weeks from today will turn 20, made me a white cake from scratch and even made lemon icing from scratch. It was her first layered cake and the first cake and icing from scratch! It turned out beautiful. Okay, so I am prejudice on the subject but I was touched!
I hope all of you have a great day and a great weekend!
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It sure was a hard day yesterday with both of their deaths, and the day before with Ed it really hits me hard to see all these people that we have watched and maybe didn’t always agree with what one of them may or may not have done. Michaels music is something we will never forget. Farrah I am sure her poster is still up in several mens area I was shocked when I went to one of my friends and her husband still had her poster.
It really just shows how old we are getting when we see all these celebrities die.
I hope everyone has a good day and a great weekend. I know my day is not going to be the same.
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well my mom passed away 4 years ago and yesterday would have been her 61st bday so I was kinda down about that and then the passing of Farrah and Michael was just so shocking Farrahs smile reminded me of my moms so what a rough day!!!! I hope everyone has a nice weekend and just give your loved ones an extra hug !
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It is so sad about Farrah and Michael. I hope everyone has a good weekend.
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This week has been totally surreal. I’m also in a haze/not all there- so much going on. And/but this Sunday is my birthday – hopefully something good happens!
Have a great weekend, everyone!
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Yesterday with both of them passing was unreal.
Try to enjoy the weekend all.
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It was very sad to hear about both of them.
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Even knowing Farrah’s death could come at any time, I was still surprised and saddened by her death yesterday. I was so hoping she and Ryan would be able to marry before she died. I was totally shocked to find out about Michael. I knew before I left work that he was taken to the hospital, but was so shocked to find out that he was gone. I still remember waiting for the premier of the Thriller video on MTV when I was 11 or 12. Both were such talented people, and their deaths coming so soon after Ed McMahon’s made it a really sad week.
Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend! I finished reading Fade to Black this morning and can only say; everyone needs to either pre-order or be in the bookstore on the release date! One of Leslie’s best books ever!
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Will always remember Ed McMahon saying Here’s Johnny! Farrah’s poster! and dancing to Michael Jackson’s songs. May they all Rest in Peace.
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While I wasn’t a big Michael Jackson fan, I believe the world is a better place because of his music. It is too bad his personal life was filled with so much pain and sadness.
Farrah will also be missed. She was a better actress than what most people gave her credit for. Look at her performance in ‘The Burning Bed’…outstanding and definately not a glamour girl part.
And finally Ed McMahon’s passing, for me, was the biggest loss to the entertainment world. He was such an icon and played so well off Johnny Carson.
Sad week for the entertainment industry.
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It was so sad to learn of Farrah’s and Michael’s deaths. While Farrah’s was somewhat expected, she still was only 62 and had a lot to live for including marrying Ryan. It was hard to imagine having your son in jail that he could not be by her side during her final hours…something he will have to live with and I am sure saddened her.
Then a few hours later the very unexpected death of MIchael at only age 50…total shock. Just when he was getting his life back on track and seemed ready to make a comeback with his fans so looking forward to seeing him on stage again.
A very sad day as much talent was lost by both these wonderful people.
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My prayers go out to all of the families (and everyone hurting). Yesterday, the weather here was weird and then the passing of both of them (MJ was so unexpected).
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Only count my previous post, but I feel extremely bad for MJ’s kids…they are young (I always can relate because mine are young, also).
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it was a sad day for sure. sending love to the families.Have a great weekend
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I could use a boost…
To roughly quote John Donne “every man’s death diminishes me…no man is an island.” May all their passings be in peace.
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Have a nice weekend!
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I hope and pray everyone has a great weekend.
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What a sad week. Both so young. have a lovely weekend.
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Thanks Liza!
My husband said he was going to give me a gift certificate to B&N. LOL That works for me!
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Was expecting the passing of Farrah, loved watching her when I was younger on Charlie’s Angels. But when my mom told me about Michael passing away I couldn’t believe it. What a sad day, hopefuuly the weekend will be better!
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I was especially affected by Farrah’s death. I was a huge Charlie’s Angels fan. I can remember reading a magazine article about her, with diagrams of the exercises she did to stay in shape. I of course used her shampoo and anything else Farrah. Then her fabulous performance in The Burning Bed. Unforgettable. She was an amazing woman, a definite icon from my generation and she will be sorely missed. I feel for Ryan O’Neal, her son, who is I believe in jail–so sad–and all of her family and friends. And to die at 62. So sad. And she had to lose that beautiful hair to the ravages of chemo…I was flipping through the channels last night and stopped for a moment on Larry King. He said, “We were planning to do a show tonight on Farrah Fawcett but with the death of Michael Jackson that show is in the past.” What a thing to say. At least Entertainment Tonight did their show about Farrah instead of scrapping it for Michael Jackson.
Michael Jackson was an amazing talent. Watching him perform was a feast for the eyes and senses. Whether you liked him or not. I do wonder what will happen to his children. Hopefully they won’t be held over balcony railings anymore. Despite all of his success and over-the-top fame I think he was a very unhappy and insecure man.
His estate no doubt–No. Doubt.–have people already in line including his family–ready, willing and can’t-wait-ready to make a boat load of money off of his death. People were selling Michael Jackson T-shirts in the street about five minutes after his death was announced. Sad but true.
Great prize today, Carly
Cher
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Yesterday left me feeling older and sadder.
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@Karen H in NC: Not a MJ fan either, although he was quite a talent. So tragic that no one could stop his self destructive demons.
Farrah will always be remembered by me as a very talented actress in The Burning Bed, Small Sacrifices, Extremities and several more. It is very sad that she died so young and that Ryan didn’t marry her sooner.
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This has been a week of saddness between Ed, Farrah, and Michael. Wsihing everyone a better weekend.
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I was very surprised to hear of Michael Jackson’s passing and they had been reporting how ill Farrah was but it was definitely sad that they both passed away yesterday.
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Carly, I know what you mean. I am still in a fog of disbelieve…even thoug I knew Farrah was sick, I thought she would beat it. It didn’t even enter my mind that she would pass so young…she was so beautiful and that smile was incredible…that is what I try to remember about her…
I grew up on Michale. We shared a birthday after all. I remember where I was when I first heard and saw the 13 minute video for Thriller…I loved his music and his gentle and giving spirit…I still can’t wrap my mind around it all. Don’t enter me in for the gift card okay, good luck to everyone.
Peace and love,
Paula R.
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It makes me sad when two well known people pass on the same day. It seems one death is always overshadowed by the other when they are both equally a sad loss. Jim Henson/Sammy Davis Jr. Pricess Di/Mother Theresa. And now, Farrah Fawcett/Michael Jackson.
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It has been a sad week. Ed, Farrah, and Michael have each touched us in in their own way.
Have a nice weekend!
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It’s been a sad few days. Family members are in my prayers.
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Yesterday was sad news and shocking for some.
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I was expecting Farrah to pass because she has been so sick, but not Michael Jackson, I was shocked by him. I loved him in his early years but not so much in later years. He had some fantastic hits when he was a child. They will both be missed.
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I was upset yesterday too. So sad. I hope everyone in the jungle has a nice weekend!
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I think that the entire summer has been surreal. the demonstrations in Iran. Everyone holding their collective breath to see whether the economy recovers. Yesterday was even more so. It is like a part of my youth died yesterday. I graduated from h.s. in 76. Both Michael Jackson and Farrah were 70s icons.
Worst, I must admit a little relief over Michael Jackson’s death for a myriad of reasons. I feel now his music can be enjoyed without the shadow of his personal life. (Yes, I am pretty convinced that Michael Jackson was a pedophile) Also, I could not see the man without feeling his increasing isolation, detachment, and pain. I didn’t see a pretty future for Michael Jackson.
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I was shocked to learn of the death of Michael Jackson-he had some great music and Farrah fought very hard with her illness. She was very beautiful.
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Sad news but luckily Michael and Farrah’s work will keep them alive.
I took a class at the Fashion Institute of Design in LA during the 1980′s and we took a tour of the costume designer Bob Mackie’s studio. He showed us the glove he designed for Michael Jackson. Mr Mackie was know as the “sultan of sequins” and he was famous for his elaborate designs for gowns for Carole Burnett, Cher and Tina Turner. The glove is expected to sell for thousands of dollars at auction.
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I can’t believe that MJ and Farrah have past away. I am sorry that Farrah had to face a rare form of cancer. I loved Charlie’s Angels. I am sad that she isn’t getting as much coverage as Michael on the news and internet. I guess Michael was more popular. My best friend is upset that MJ passed, she loves his music, and was looking forward to him touring.
Hope everyone has a great weekend!
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So very sad to hear about Michael Jackson in particular — sad about Farrah too, but after seeing her recent documentary, her death was not unexpected. MJ’s though, was such a shock.I have always been a huge fan of MJ, ever since I was a kid (the same age as him). Such an amazing talent, and, by all accounts, a wonderful father. So tragic that his life was marred by frivolous lawsuits and absurd allegations. I was really rooting for his comeback. I haven’t felt like this since the day Elvis died.
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Very very sad news…
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Carly, what a great prize for your Friday. Thanks.
Yesterday the entertainment industry took a sad hit. I’ve never been a big Michael Jackson fan, my daughters might have been when they were in their early teens. There was no denying his talent.
Farah fought with grace and determination to win her battle with cancer. Her passing is sad. I loved the show Charlie’s Angels. She set a wonderful example for anyone struggling with cancer.
I loved watching Johnny Carson and Ed McMahon as his sidekick. He too will be miissed. Semper Fi, Ed.
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Yesterday was a bit odd. An icon of the 70s and an icon of the 80s. It almost sounds untrue.
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All the passings have really bothered me. But honestly anyone passing really bothers me. The Michaels Jackson really upset me b/c on Wed. my husbands cardiologist said he needs to go back in for another angioplasty. One of his stints is wearing out, it needs replacing. He is only 45. We have 2 kids. And he does not want to go.
What is Sephora?
Have a safe and blessed weekend all.
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Hard to believe that we lost three icons in less than a week. I spent last night watching specials about Michael and Farrah. I loved “Charlie’s Angels” when I was a girl.
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Rest in peace, Farrah and Michael.
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I hope everyone has a safe weekend.
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It has been a very sad week! I was definitely affected by yesterday’s news.
Great pick-me-up, Carly! Thanks!
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Yesterday was surreal, Carly. I’ve always sort of believed in things happening in threes. This week certainly bore out that superstition.
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I still feel numb. I can’t believe Michael’s gone. I grew up listening to Thriller and learning the dance at a slumber party. It’s so tragic for his children and Farrah’s son.
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So sad! Too much sadness in the world lately!
God bless us all!!
Pat Cochran
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What a shocker about MJ I grew up listening to him
Farrah wasl also great on Charlie’s Angels
RIP
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I was so shocked by Michael Jackson’s untimely death. Farrah’s made me cry because she never got to say “I do.” But I’m devastated over the loss of Ed McMahon.
Now who is going to tell me I might have won MILLIONS?
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I was shocked to hear of MJ’s death as I never knew anything was wrong.
I had seen FF’s TV special but still it was a surprise.
Ed Mc.’s death was shocking also.
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Wow, yesterday was one of those days when my own mortality hit me square in the face.
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It was a really sad day!
I guess we all need some cheering up.
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When I woke up tis morning it was all people were talking about… still hard to imagine MJ is dead…
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Surreal is the perfect word to describe yesterday. It was definitely a sad day.
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I was not a fan of Michael Jackson, but know the world lost a great performer yesterday.
Farrah Fawcett was great on Charlie’s Angels!
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Still can’t believe the news about Michael Jackson.
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Both definitely surprised me–they’ve both clearly made quite an impact!
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It is so hard to believe that Michael Jackson is gone, he was such a talented person and loved his music. Farrah will be missed too and I wonder what will happen to her son and Ryan. God Bless both families! I really hate being the number 66 to post
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I’m too young for them to have been my childhood icons, but both of them will be missed. I’m sure Farrah’s family although sadenned by her loss is relieved that her brave battle is over.
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I was so shocked and saddened to hear that Farrah died. Then on top of it all to hear Michael Jackson died. I mean, OH MY GOSH!!! I grew up listening to his music! I went to one of his concerts just before him and his brothers broke out into their own acts.
I just cried! 
Also, earlier in the week we lost Ed McMahon, host of the Tonight Show with Johnny Carson. It has really been a sad week.
I want to wish you all a very good weekend! Have fun with your family and friends! Tell someone how much you love them because you just never know.
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Hope everyone has a great weekend!
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It was a tough day yesterday and still is. It made me think too of my mom and missing her, and others. So it had me reflecting more to reach out and remind so many in my life that I love them.
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I found myself sad and a little numb. I had Michael Jackson posters on my wall when I was a teenager and I still enjoy his music today. Oh, and Farrah…I always thought she was beautiful and to this day, I still have her hair style. Even if it is a bit out of style. lol
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This has been a really sad day for everyone.
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I am very sad about both of them. I am particularly sad about Farrah’s passing and I do think that she has been a bit overshadowed by Michael which makes me sad. I am keeping them and their families in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad time.
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It sucks, true, but it happens, no one can stop death.
Although I’m working on it.
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Donna
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I’m with a younger generation that didn’t see Farrah as much as we did Michael. He seemed to influence everyone that wanted to make music. He had such a huge affect on the world that I think is why the news is covering what happened to him more than Farrah. Hopefully both their families can be together and celebrate all the good things and the love they had.
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I was definitely more surprised by MJ’s death. It just came out of nowhere. Farrah has been slowly slipping away for two years. Both influenced our culture in very unique ways!
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Farrah was expected and Michael was a unexpected but both was a too bad and I hope that their famlies and friends find strength to get through this time bith were parents I feel for their kids. both were Icons from my childhood god bless their souls and RIP Farrah and Michael.
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Have a great weekend!
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Hope everyone has a great weekend!
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It was very sad to hear of both Farrah and Michael’s passing. May they both RIP and I hope the best for the children. Have a nice weekend everyone.
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I was surprised at how sad I felt. I remember MJ when I was a kid, and how much I enjoyed his music. That’s how I’ll remember him, rather than how odd he became.
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very sad
love his muisc listening rite now
happy weeeknd all
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I was sadly affected I forgot it was Free Book Friday!
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No– I was not affected by the deaths. I have lost 3 family members in the last 5 years…..those are the people I mourn for….